33 ALMOST HUSBANDS.....32 IS LONG GONE

The title of this post is 33 Almost Husbands----32 Is Long Gone that is because as of 2 days ago I broke up with yet another boyfriend. It seems like I do alot of things well but relationships is not one of them.

The reasons it ended are alot of small things that at the end of the day are big things. He is alot younger than me which I never thought was an issue until the other night when his immaturity reared its ugly head. He was beginning to have controlling type behavior which is NOT going to work for me. The only person who has been paying my bills is ME and noway am I going to let myself be controlled. Perhaps if I was more sweet and submissive I would have a long term boyfriend..... He was also starting to hint at the fact that he didn't think it was a good idea for me to hang out with my friends. I flat out told him WELL THEY WERE HERE BEFORE YOU WERE!!!!

I can honestly say myself at 22 would have put up with that type of behavior.  I would have let a man come in between me and my friends but I already went down that road. I like to consider myself  the type of woman who learns lessons from these shitty and sometimes wonderful relationships I have had (mostly shitty)!!!

So here I am today on Memorial Day single once again.  This means more stories for you and to be quite honest less stress on myself because these men stress me the F*CK out. At this point I really would rather be single and the only thing that might make that statement seem untrue is the fact that I have a date for next Saturday ;-)

P.S. The ex boyfriend is coming to my apartment today to get his stuff. I have not seen him in 2 days. I hope this is nice and easy, I give him his stuff and he leaves opposed to him wanting to sit down and have a long emotionally draining talk. Wish me luck!

Other Peoples Property......

Other peoples property.....also known as O.P.P. This is a concept a friend of mine talked about recently. It basically means when a person is in a relationship and taken they automatically become more attractive to the opposite sex.

I have never believed this was true until it has happened to myself first hand. I am now a taken woman and in the past month have been hit on, checked out and asked out more than I did when I was single in 3 months! I then go back into the old memory bank and remember every time I have been in a relationship and without fail other men seemed to want me more than a beer on Superbowl!!!! Of course when I was single finding a descent man was like finding water in the desert. GO FIGURE!!!!!!

I know I am not the only person this is happening to because I have interviewed other friends of mine and they say the same thing. I think it is one of two things......

Option #1: When you are not on the look out for a potential mate people seem to give off a confident and kicked back vibe that the opposite sex naturally gravitates  to. The reason is because people DIG CONFIDENCE!

Option #2: Simply put not all people but ALOT of people want what they cant have a good example of this is you go to a restaurant and order something that sounds good to you but you look at the table next to you and the choice they made for dinner looks so much better than what you are eating.

Of course there are exceptions to this rule but this is just something I have noticed. What I want to know is what is YOUR opinion on O.P.P????

My personal opinion is I might admire O.P.P but I don't want other peoples property I want my own!!! Call me old fashion ;-)