The reasons it ended are alot of small things that at the end of the day are big things. He is alot younger than me which I never thought was an issue until the other night when his immaturity reared its ugly head. He was beginning to have controlling type behavior which is NOT going to work for me. The only person who has been paying my bills is ME and noway am I going to let myself be controlled. Perhaps if I was more sweet and submissive I would have a long term boyfriend..... He was also starting to hint at the fact that he didn't think it was a good idea for me to hang out with my friends. I flat out told him WELL THEY WERE HERE BEFORE YOU WERE!!!!
I can honestly say myself at 22 would have put up with that type of behavior. I would have let a man come in between me and my friends but I already went down that road. I like to consider myself the type of woman who learns lessons from these shitty and sometimes wonderful relationships I have had (mostly shitty)!!!
So here I am today on Memorial Day single once again. This means more stories for you and to be quite honest less stress on myself because these men stress me the F*CK out. At this point I really would rather be single and the only thing that might make that statement seem untrue is the fact that I have a date for next Saturday ;-)
P.S. The ex boyfriend is coming to my apartment today to get his stuff. I have not seen him in 2 days. I hope this is nice and easy, I give him his stuff and he leaves opposed to him wanting to sit down and have a long emotionally draining talk. Wish me luck!
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